Today I was walking in the toy section of Fields looking for my next jigsaw puzzle (that could be another post!). I overheard a mom guiding her little daughter through the aisle, pointing out some toys she may be interested in with the money she got from Grandma for her Birthday. The mom even mentioned that it would be ok to get a toy that boys like, if she wanted. The little girl was so sweet. She was about 3 – little white dress on, bright pink runners and pink streaks in her hair as well. Obviously the mom was a loving mom, explaining all the different toys and what she might like about each one.
I picked out my puzzle, did a bit more browsing around the store and then got in the line behind the mom and little girl. While they were waiting for the people ahead of them to finish up, the mom explained to her daughter that they may not be able to afford the tea set chosen but she would see what the price was. The cashier asked the mom if she just wanted to see how much the set was. The mom nodded. ‘$15.98’ the cashier announced. The mom shook her head and said ok thanks, reaching for the set to put it back on the shelf.
I said ‘I’ve got it’. The mom’s face went red and said no, it’s ok. I said ‘ it was her Birthday, right? I’m happy to get it’. The mom said over and over ‘are you sure?’. I said yes. She reached in her pocket and tried to give me a $5.00 bill (or maybe there were two fives). I said no, it’s ok. The mom kept repeating that she couldn’t believe it, tears running down her face. I asked the little girl her name (couldn’t quite make it out). Mom told her to say thank you and she did.
The cashier said ‘that was very nice of you but you’d be surprised how many times I’ve seen this happen in this wonderful community’.
We walked out of the store together. She asked me my name and I asked her hers. She said her daughter’s birthday was actually on Mother’s Day and that ‘you don’t know what this means to me, I’m going to pay it forward’. We wished each other a good day and I walked back to my car.
This post isn’t intended to sound like I’m this wonderful person by buying a little girl a toy. It’s meant to be about how good it feels to do it – I almost feel selfish about it. While I know I made the mom and little girl happy, it did more than that for me.